It appears that my uppance has come. These two lovely ladies have decided to arrange themselves in almost the worst possible position for a so-called natural birth: sideways and upside-down, semi-tangled so neither seems able to move. Due to my defiant nature (and informed but also innate fear of a c-section), R and I have therefore done everything in our power to try to convince them to flip head-down...at least one of them. How have we attempted this, you might ask? Let me share, as well as describing some of the ridiculous crap we haven't bothered with.
1. Therapeutic massage. I managed to find a physical therapist who does "soft tissue manipulation" that my insurance covers willingly, in hopes that she could help get my system aligned and happy. Yes, my hips were disastrously out of whack, and sure, my back was none too chuffed to be carrying around two extra people, but all her best efforts did little more than make me happy for the rest of the afternoon. Her husband, who shares her practice, had another idea...
2. Moxibustion. This is a Traditional Chinese technique that utilizes the flow of qi in the body to motivate movement. We were trained by this local acupunturist, then attempted this stinky, somewhat awkward process at home thrice a day for weeks. Qi in the lower back and reproductive regions is stimulated by holding a smoldering moxa stick - a roughly cigar-sized piece of compressed mugwort charcoal - as close to the outside of the pinkie toe as the mother can stand. The whole experience is meant to be a meditative time for a couple to bond and communicate while simultaneously making their babies dance like Freddie Mercury after too much espresso. R can attest that a matter of minutes into the process, my tummy looked like a scene from "Alien." Yes, it got them moving, but no...they did not actually go anywhere productive. R found it awkward and uncomfortable, I hated the smell, and we were both losing sleep waking up early and staying up late to do it three times a day. Ain't nobody got time for that. So, we added to the mix...
3. The Webster Technique/chiropractic adjustments out the wazoo. Seriously, I had my wazoo adjusted yesterday, and while it kind of sucked, it clearly needed to happen. All the massaging was nice, but apparently I needed someone to just put everything where it needed to go a bit more aggressively. I got recommendations for a practitioner nearby who practices this Webster Technique thing, which is basically focused adjustment of the pelvis and sacrum, with very deliberate massage of the ligaments holding the uterus in place. My chiropractor is a magical fairy princess unicorn superhero whom I adore, but she did admit this week that she really only has about a 50% success rate with twins. At this point, she's helped me feel better enough that I won't hold it against her if this doesn't help them flip, but still...that would have been a nice number to hear before I committed to seeing her three times a week. We'll see. In the meantime...
4. Inversions. This is a fancy way to say "dangling kinda upside-down," which in pregnancy-speak means forcing myself to get heartburn and usually some nasty nausea and weird lower back aching. Some women apparently do this on an ironing board leaning against a couch, which I just can't fathom doing with my current center of gravity (or lack thereof), so I just put a bunch of pillows under my butt and pray that does enough. So far it has been as successful as everything else, which is to say not at all. What's next?
5. Vagina music?!? This seems to be the next thing to get serious about. I did spend a few afternoons at work with my phone between my legs playing some favorite songs, but it sounds like providing as much auditory stimulation as possible to motivate them to put their heads by the music is the way to do it. Some people recommend having the father talk into the mother's vagina, or at least directly at the lowest part of the belly, but neither of us can get past the giggling that would cause.
6. Ice 'em out. I've tried this with zero reaction, but might need to try harder. Basically, the idea is to put an ice pack on the babies' heads to piss them off so much that they move away from the cold. This can be combined with chugging an iced drink to cool down the stomach (which is also kind of on their heads), and some even try to put a soothing heating pad on the bottom of the belly to lure them to the warmth, but given how stubborn these girls have been, I feel like this would just all make me uncomfortable while they silently chuckle to themselves about all the dumb shit mom is doing to herself.
7. Totally illicit manual version and absurd positioning. I just rub the shit out of my belly. All the time. Those poor ligaments are going to be like a middle school girl's favorite hair tie by the time these babies are done with me, and even my skin is starting to ache despite my liberal application of coconut and jojoba oil. I push on the sharp bits of baby that stick out (and they push back), I gently nudge head-shaped things southward, and I rarely sit in any way that doesn't somehow encourage some sort of movement. Right now, for example, I've got my belly dangling slightly off to the left while I twist my pelvis open and have one leg tucked under me and the other on a coffee table. Yeah. Try that one at home.
We're at thirty six and a half weeks...so now what? Medical science (for what that's worth) says that if a baby hasn't flipped by thirty six weeks they probably won't, but internet message boards are filled with women whose twins flipped as late as thirty eight weeks or later. I'm trying to maintain any hope that this is just their first attempt to mess with me, and that they will happily pop their little heads down at the last minute so we can all avoid a c-section, but it's been tough to stay positive. The idea of making babies do anything is absurd, but making not-yet-born twins in massively cramped quarters go anywhere other than where they are does feel pretty ludicrous. We shall see.
7. Totally illicit manual version and absurd positioning. I just rub the shit out of my belly. All the time. Those poor ligaments are going to be like a middle school girl's favorite hair tie by the time these babies are done with me, and even my skin is starting to ache despite my liberal application of coconut and jojoba oil. I push on the sharp bits of baby that stick out (and they push back), I gently nudge head-shaped things southward, and I rarely sit in any way that doesn't somehow encourage some sort of movement. Right now, for example, I've got my belly dangling slightly off to the left while I twist my pelvis open and have one leg tucked under me and the other on a coffee table. Yeah. Try that one at home.
We're at thirty six and a half weeks...so now what? Medical science (for what that's worth) says that if a baby hasn't flipped by thirty six weeks they probably won't, but internet message boards are filled with women whose twins flipped as late as thirty eight weeks or later. I'm trying to maintain any hope that this is just their first attempt to mess with me, and that they will happily pop their little heads down at the last minute so we can all avoid a c-section, but it's been tough to stay positive. The idea of making babies do anything is absurd, but making not-yet-born twins in massively cramped quarters go anywhere other than where they are does feel pretty ludicrous. We shall see.